Well I got it together.
The crush sleeve from the was made from un-crush-ubtainium.

I took it back apart and put just the crush sleeve in between 2 plates on the press. I pumped on the 12ton jack until it wouldn't budge...the crush sleeve didn't budge ether.
After reading a lot of

on the internet about cruch sleeve vs. solid sleeve, I decided to look at the old crush sleeve.
I measured the free play that I had left on the assembly: .114"
I then measured the old crush sleeve: .101" shorter than the new one.
So I still had ruffly .013" of "crush" left.
I assembled it with the old crush sleeve. I didn't use the press because I didn't want to go to far. So I used a tube and a small hammer so I could "feel" when I reached solid stack-up. It worked!

.011 if play! I torqued the nut a bit and got it to 22in-lb of running torque. BOOM! Now I could move on to setting the pattern.
I started with a new shim the same thickness of the one that came out. .018" I set the backlash at .010". I didn't have a Spanner wrench, so I made one.
The .018" shim got me this:
Coast Side - Drive Side
Backlash looked ok because the contact was centered side-to-side. Shim was all wrong.
.015" shim:
Coast Side - Drive Side
One more time with a .010" shim:
Coast Side - Drive Side
I rechecked the backlash... .010"
You can see how they match up in this picture... well sort of.
I think it looks good, but this is the first one I have ever done, so what do I know!
I spray bombed it with Silver paint so the parts will be shiny when it explodes on the road!
