i think ive got a lemon starter motor and the wrong starter drive
here are the parts ive got
Starter Drive
http://www.oreillyauto.com/EW3/ProductD ... rentPage=0
starter motor
http://www.oreillyauto.com/EW3/ProductD ... rentPage=0
i dont understand why im having problem, i put the old starter back in and after about 15 mins of it scretching it finally started the engine and when i pulled it off the bendix had retracted
i think i might have a bogus starter

